What am I about?

I like being healthy and playing sport. I am not the best but I like to try hard at what I do. Sport offers me a release from pressures and allows me to keep my body in shape and to keep up with my young children, I don't think I look my age and I know I don't feel it. I like the team spirit of sport and value the camaraderie. That is important because in the process of surgery there can be no success without team work. The competition of sport is beneficial to my life, but if I lose in a fair way having tried my best I am happy for the winner, even if it is not me. This spirit of competition drives me to improve.

What is special to me?

I love my wife and my family and I appreciate their beauty and individuality. I am and constantly forgiving my children for keeping me awake at night (for the little ones, we had our last at 44) and for being grumpy and wanting everything as teenagers. My wife understands my appreciation of the beauty in female form (and she has benefited from my interest), and I can tolerate her fascination with Pierce Brosnan. I try to understand sensuality and sexuality from a female perspective, but I will never completely understand. Though I am open to learning, and I try to use that in my work. I have had various procedures on myself because I can see the value in the procedures and it allows me to have empathy with my patients.

My future

I would like to be well off but I will never be super wealthy ( I started too late and have too many children). If I had to choose between money and happiness , it would not be a choice and I would leave with nothing in my pockets but a smile on my face. What I want is to be doing great work for as long as I can and I don't care if my peers don't recognise me. I care if people who meet me see what I am about. If they like that and trust me I will try my best to help them. If I am not the right person for them I will give them names of other who may suit there needs. People need not to be baffled but helped to understand.

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